I have learnt a lot throughout my Real Housewives journey this year. Some lessons weren’t exactly pleasant, but regardless I am grateful for the knowledge I have gained. In life, we go through all kinds of experiences and meet all kinds of people. Some of these experiences and people benefit our lives and some of them don’t. Whether your encounters have been good or bad, always remember that there is something you can learn from each and every one. We need to appreciate the moments which help us grow. There will always be certain obstacles we must overcome in our journey through life. These obstacles teach us things about ourselves, the world and the people in it. For that, we should be thankful.

Your Value

One of the biggest lessons I’ve learnt is to appreciate your own value as a person. Other people might try to shake your confidence or make you feel bad, but if you know your worth then you have nothing to worry about. Don’t compromise who you are for anyone. Don’t change your values or beliefs because someone doesn’t approve of them, and make sure you live your life as you want to live it. Always remember that you deserve the best. Don’t settle for something or someone because it’s easy. In the long run, you will benefit your happiness.

There are Unkind People

Sadly, the world is full of them. Some people feel the need to cut others down in order to build themselves up. Some act out of jealousy, and some are just nasty people. Ignore these people and carry on. Know that their unkindness has nothing to do with you. If you are a good person then you need to realise that they are actually hurting in some way, and their unkindness is a result of this. Understand that you can’t make people change or grow up. Instead, focus on you. Be the bigger person.

Balance is Key

This I truly believe. A balanced life is a happy life. To me, this means being balanced in all aspects of your life. A balanced diet and exercise regime is crucial. You have to let yourself enjoy life, so have a treat now and then. Exercise regularly, but not to the point where you completely dread it. Exercising can be really fun, so find a method that works well for you and stick with it. Its important also to make sure your work and pleasure time is balanced. You can’t let your job take over your life. Having down time is necessary to your overall mood. We need to de-stress and kick back now and then. Managing your time alone and around others is important, too. Time spent on your own allows you to focus on yourself and reconnect.